Nisna Mahtani

Dating Smartz’s honest and realistic dating advisor, with a focus on happiness and self-love. I’m here to sprinkle joy where I can but you’ll never catch me sugar-coating a situation.

Heteroflexibility: What Is It and Does It Apply to You?

LGBT+

Sexuality is fluid and with this movement, comes ways to describe the way in which people feel. One of the ways you can describe sexuality is heteroflexible. The term heteroflexibility…

Am I Pansexual or Bisexual? What’s The Difference?

LGBT+

As you probably already know, sexuality and sexual orientation are ways in which you convey your romantic attraction. These deeply personal feelings are often difficult to express if they do…

Proposing? Here Are The Best Proposal Props To Use

Committed Relationship

Marriage proposals, popping the question, getting down on one knee. Whichever way you choose to define it, proposing is one of the most intimate moments of a relationship. But how…

What is a Soul Mate Vs Twin Flame? How Do You Know When You’ve Found Yours?

Committed Relationship

Soul mates vs twin flame – do you believe in them? Personally, the idea of soul mates in a romantic sense had been rather ruined by generic quotes and cliché…

3 Things You Should Know About Being On The Aromantic Spectrum

LGBT+

There are 46 ways to describe a person’s sexuality. Aromance is one of them. The aromatic spectrum is a term used to describe people with a lack of romantic attraction….

The Dos and Don’ts of Dating Someone With Depression

Dating Advice

Living with depression sucks. Anyone that has it will tell you that. But what’s it like when you’re dating someone with depression? The answer tends to be complicated.  In short,…

Should I Get Back With My Ex? 6 Questions to Ask Yourself First

Dating Advice

Recently, long periods with a lack of intimacy have got our minds wandering. We reminisce about the good times, being outside, having a drink, and a partner to share it…

6 Signs You’re Losing Interest In Your Partner

Committed Relationship

We’ve all experienced ‘the ick’ when dating. That overwhelmingly off-putting feeling of cringe when a potential partner turns into a thing of the past. Usually ‘the ick’ links to the…